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How to Deal with Unwanted Anxious Thoughts

People who experience a high level of anxiety on a regular basis, and those who suffer from frequent panic attacks, often struggle with dealing with unwanted anxious thoughts. These thoughts are typically based on a particular place, situation or thing, and may include worrying about one’s health, fear that a loved one is in trouble, or other fears that limit the person’s ability to make rational decisions.

Unwanted anxious thoughts, sometimes know as intrusive thoughts, can become intrusive to the point that they lead to obsessive compulsive disorder or other disturbances that take away from the person’s quality of life. However, there are several things a person who is dealing with unwanted anxious thoughts can do to curtail the problem. talk more about dealing with this side effect of anxiety in my book Panic Away.

In order to take control over the cycle of anxious thoughts, it’s important to take a two-pronged approach. This involves making a big shift in your attitude, and using certain visualization tools that will help you ‘see’ a positive outcome.

A shift in attitude means you need to accept that the anxiety is there, and then ‘release’ it from your mind. If you focus closely on a certain thought or idea, you’ll see that it connects to a similar thought and you probably jump from one thought to another over the course of the day. If you continually find yourself coming back to a certain negative thought, you need to accept that it’s there until you become desensitized to it.

Your emotional reaction to the thought is literally what is making the thought appear in your mind time and time again. When you can maintain a ‘neutral’ attitude towards it, it will simply disappear from view.

There are several visualization tools you can use to end unwanted anxious thoughts, and one of them involves positive imagery coupled with deep breathing. You can ground yourself and stop the cycle of anxious thoughts completely simply by breathing deeply and enjoying the feeling of safety and security for a few moments.

Anxious thoughts and the worry station

When your anxiety level is high any anxious thought you might have takes
on a different intensity. For example a bizarre thought that would normally
never cause you any concern starts to feel uncomfortable and leads to
further anxious thoughts.

The reason this happens is because your anxiety score is high
and you are not feeling at ease with yourself. Compare that to when you
are feeling relaxed and happy. In that situation anxious thoughts hardly make an
impression and if they do, you have enough inner calm to dismiss them and
move on without reacting in fear.

Have you also noticed that if you are feeling exhausted and run down, you are much
more prone to worry.

That’s because your energy levels are low and you don’t have that same level of inner
calm and self assurance to deal with the anxious thoughts.

Think of it like listening to a radio station. When your anxiety level is high your mind tunes
into the worry station. The worry station amplifies any anxious thoughts you might have.
Like attracts like. By the virtue of being anxious your mind has turned the dial
away from Cool and Calm FM  to Worry and Stress FM.

But then when you are more relaxed and calm that station switches back automatically
and anxious thoughts have very little to no impact.

So the next time you are feeling anxious and wondering why your mind feels so
stuck on Worry FM, remember it is directly related to your overall level of anxiety
in your mind and body.

By taking steps to reduce your anxiety level you will be less troubled by anxious
thoughts and find your mental climate much more calm.  You will be tuned into
the station of your choice.

Learn more about the Panic Away Program here >>